Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all
This is a very common saying in this world. A world driven by love and emotions. A world driven by greed and creed. A world blinded by the truth.
Some may agree with this saying. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I believe those are only the people that have never experienced true love and then have it taken away. I guess it is better in their eyes. From their stand point, being loved at some point in their life is worth not being loved at all.
My view it is not better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Because what I loved and still love, is the only thing that brings joy and happiness to my heart. Imagine a man, driven by pure love, motivated him to be better, motivating him to do things others wouldnt do...motivated him to do the impossible. Ever since I was old enough to understand what love is, I wanted to it, I wanted to experience it, I wanted to explore it, I wanted...to embrace it.
Better to have loved and lost than never to haveloved at all...to me, it is the other way around. Better to have not been loved at all than to have been loved and lost.
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Something only a handful of people would know. Loving someone and having a companion, a partner, a loved one, is one of the many things we cherish in our lives. No matter what type of person you are, love is the strongest emotion. People may say that anger or rage is the strongest. This is not true. Love will make anyone do anything. Motivate them, encourage them, fight for them, respect them, love them. This is nothing that rage or anger can compare to.
What can kill a man is loving someone that does not love you back. A man is driven to complete objectives, to complete goals, to complete tasks at hand. Every single man on this world is driven by so. So when a man is driven to complete a task or job such as loving and caring for someone, that is an endless task or job. A mission as you will, a never ending accomplishment one has to undertake for the rest of his life. A man can never refuse such a thing. As stated above, we are driven to complete what lies ahead and for something that could never be completed, that is what drives a man beyond his limits.
I am one of those handfuls of people that is undergoing his love towards another and not be loved back in return. My ability to keep my chin up and keep motivated without this love shows how great and strong of a person I am. Keeping a man's whits together is something not one for the faint of heart. I am still accomplishing my goals, but not holding on to an endless task makes me feel useless.
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They all bring up these "quotes", and then people get those quotes and present them like they are some ultimate truth, or something, but it is all very, very subjective.
I don't mean this by an insult, but have you been doing this long. I have only been here for a little bit, but did something happen to you. I have not been up to date recently.
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Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
Everyday is a new day. To much stress, to much drama, corrupts the future. Corrupting the future in such aways affects your attitude, your motivation, your mood for the new day. The new day being affected becomes the old stressful times...and it is not enjoyed.
"Keep positive and positive things come back to you."
-Carloseus
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Thanks you guys. My intention is not to show everyone what i am going through but more of a life lessons from someone that is experiencing it. I am trying to help those whom are in situations like these and need a voice from another. I guess you guys can start calling me the love doctor or what not because I have experienced it all...even loosing a love one when they pass away.
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Emotions is what carries someone the next step. No matter how much you deny it, everyone has emotions. You may not realize it, but that is what keeps one together. Take the time to reflect yourself, understand yourself, ask yourself every now and then, "Who am I?" "What is my goals?" "What is my purpose in this life?" When you do, you find something new about yourself...and when you do find something about yourself, exploit it, embrace and live your life to the fullest knowing you are aware of your emotions and how much it affects you.
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Good advice, and I agree with all you have said thus far Thasador. If you are having problems at the moment I wish you the best of luck.
To know what love is and then enjoy its infinite happiness it brings, then to have it stripped away is possibly and argueably the worst thing that can happen to anyone.
If you have ever taken the time to look back at your life...all the good things you have experienced, all the bad things that have happened, all the memories that were created, all the bad emotions felt...how does it reflect you today. How did it make the person you are today. Some cant remember every detail in your past...some can. For those who can, you are blessed, you are blessed because you can remember all of these great and terrible things...shows you how strong you are to over come the bad things and how the good things influenced you to be better. You are blessed.
I may not be able to remember everything in my life, but one thing i did not forget was every minute spent with the love of my life. I can sit here and post up a journal about every day for the past 3 years. Am I blessed for being able to do that. I would if i could, however, it would be a never ending thread. But being there through all the good, through all the bad, still being here and doing what i do and the person I am, shows that everything that affected my life brought me here today.
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Your heart is the whisper in your head
Your heart knows when something is up by beating faster
Your heart knows when it is broken
Your heart keeps you moving
Your heart is the only thing that feels pain
Your brain clouds judgement by over thinking every possible outcome
Your brain distorts decisions by thinking the pros and cons
Your brain argues with what your heart has to say
"...Follow what your heart tells you, for it is never wrong..."
-Thasador
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I am still here, I am still here,
This means alot to me, does it mean alot for you as well?
All the pain you have caused me, yet I am still here
All the times you have made me cry, yet I am still here
All the days where you had more fun with your friends then me, yet I am still here
All the sufferring you have endured me through, yet I am still here
All the times you have told me that you are through with me, yet I am still here
All the times where you walked out that door on me, yet I am still here
All the times where you did not want to hug me anymore, yet I am still here
All the heartbreaks you have done towards me, yet I am still here
All the times that you made me feel hollow inside, yet I am still here
I am still here, I am still here
Every day that we have spent together, I was there
Every time where you needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there
Every time you looked into my eyes and said you love me, I was there
Every time when you needed someone to be there for you, I was there
And yet everytime you said you needed to be alone to figure stuff out, with us, with you, with our love...I am still here
What does that mean to you that I am still here?
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Are you in control of your life or is all up to fate? Some may say that you are in control of your life and what happens. Others leave it to fate. Maybe it is a little bit of both combined. Who knows. I personally believe in destiny. I am a man that does what he can until what lies ahead, is shown to you. What can someone ask for from a person other than someone’s best or what he/she can 100% do in his life. I try my damn hardest and I am doing everything I can in my power to make things right and to live out my life on how I want it. Maybe when the time comes, that destiny will reveal itself to me and I will be blessed.
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Are you in control of your life or is all up to fate? Some may say that you are in control of your life and what happens. Others leave it to fate. Maybe it is a little bit of both combined. Who knows. I personally believe in destiny. I am a man that does what he can until what lies ahead, is shown to you. What can someone ask for from a person other than someone’s best or what he/she can 100% do in his life. I try my damn hardest and I am doing everything I can in my power to make things right and to live out my life on how I want it. Maybe when the time comes, that destiny will reveal itself to me and I will be blessed.
Do you think we have free will? If so, does free will void destiny?
by Ryan Suhama
Genre of Creed (sounds like)
Let me heal your pain,
Let me wipe your tears,
Let me block the rain...
Right in front of you...
I am here...
What you will me to do...
Let me hold you tight,
Let me be there for you,
Let me show you my fight...
My fight for sanity,
My fight for you,
My fight for our love...
Offering you love...
I am here...
Giving you my life...
My thoughts go unheard,
My feelings go with no meaning,
My prayers......my prayers are not answered...
Ahem...if I may, it should be: Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Like a cat, tied to a stick
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
"Keep positive and positive things come back to you."
-Carloseus
To know what love is and then enjoy its infinite happiness it brings, then to have it stripped away is possibly and argueably the worst thing that can happen to anyone.
unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, more, yes, fsck, fsck, fsck, umount, sleep
If you have ever taken the time to look back at your life...all the good things you have experienced, all the bad things that have happened, all the memories that were created, all the bad emotions felt...how does it reflect you today. How did it make the person you are today. Some cant remember every detail in your past...some can. For those who can, you are blessed, you are blessed because you can remember all of these great and terrible things...shows you how strong you are to over come the bad things and how the good things influenced you to be better. You are blessed.
I may not be able to remember everything in my life, but one thing i did not forget was every minute spent with the love of my life. I can sit here and post up a journal about every day for the past 3 years. Am I blessed for being able to do that. I would if i could, however, it would be a never ending thread. But being there through all the good, through all the bad, still being here and doing what i do and the person I am, shows that everything that affected my life brought me here today.
Your heart knows when something is up by beating faster
Your heart knows when it is broken
Your heart keeps you moving
Your heart is the only thing that feels pain
Your brain clouds judgement by over thinking every possible outcome
Your brain distorts decisions by thinking the pros and cons
Your brain argues with what your heart has to say
"...Follow what your heart tells you, for it is never wrong..."
-Thasador
I am still here, I am still here,
This means alot to me, does it mean alot for you as well?
All the pain you have caused me, yet I am still here
All the times you have made me cry, yet I am still here
All the days where you had more fun with your friends then me, yet I am still here
All the sufferring you have endured me through, yet I am still here
All the times you have told me that you are through with me, yet I am still here
All the times where you walked out that door on me, yet I am still here
All the times where you did not want to hug me anymore, yet I am still here
All the heartbreaks you have done towards me, yet I am still here
All the times that you made me feel hollow inside, yet I am still here
I am still here, I am still here
Every day that we have spent together, I was there
Every time where you needed a shoulder to cry on, I was there
Every time you looked into my eyes and said you love me, I was there
Every time when you needed someone to be there for you, I was there
And yet everytime you said you needed to be alone to figure stuff out, with us, with you, with our love...I am still here
What does that mean to you that I am still here?
Do you think we have free will? If so, does free will void destiny?
unzip, strip, touch, finger, grep, mount, fsck, more, yes, fsck, fsck, fsck, umount, sleep