Honestly im really depressed right now and have no where to turn. Me and my girlfriend broke up after I got my hair cut coincidently
Normally you would think, "what? all he did was get a haircut"
But its differant due to the fact that she was a girl into the scene thing so i suppose hair plays a major role in who they date.
So now I have short hair which is making me really sad due to the fact I no longer look like pete wentz (I was always complemented on my hair)
I have no girlfriend
I have no xbox
I have no skateboard
and I have no diablo
and I really like another girl in school but
1. I don't know whether she likes me back
2. I don't know how to get her number
3. The school year is almost over which provides me with limited time to get her attention.
Should I add her on myspace? How do I talk to her?
I have no girlfriend - so? lots of people dont
I have no xbox - i have it i never use it
I have no skateboard - go running or play some sport with ur mates
and I have no diablo - i got hacked and dont play it anymore cuz of that. just take a break and go back to it later
really m8 just take it easy go for a run think it through. there is nothing to be sad or depressed about. pull yourself together and get through this shit. I know it can feel like the walls of life are closing in from all sides but you just have to fight it, get through the wall and keep going forward. life is shitty sometimes u have to beat it back, if you get knocked down, you need to get back up and keep going.
goodluck to ya m8, i know you can get through this. just go for a really long run to clear your mind. hit the sack and wake up to a fresh day tomorrow with the strength and comfort of a clear mind.
peace be with you friend, goodluck.
*edit- to the folks saying that this is laughable... you cant ever truly understand what hes going through. words cant do justice to how people feel sometimes. just understand its a hard time for him and there are a lot of factors augmenting to make for a shitty feeling.
I'm afraid idiots is the kind of currency we have too much of on this planet.
Did you quote someone else on that? Thats a pretty good quote
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there's always at least something you can do better than other people.
Not really... but if you're one of those people who happen to be better than other people at something then thats good. Channel your energy into that
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and wait until [B]guys[/B'] grow up.
*cough*
Sounds like the only real problem you have is the girlfriend thing... Sometimes a person can get into that frame of mind where theres only really one problem, but they cloud themselves with every single problem there is around them... Some weird self destructive thing we have
Like getting sad and then listening to sad songs
After my last relationship of 4 years dropped, I decided girlfriend's weren't worth the trouble until I'm finished with getting my education. Focus on your real life more than hobbies and relationships. If you can balance it out, releave the stress, then slowly get things back into your life.
Honestly im really depressed right now and have no where to turn. Me and my girlfriend broke up after I got my hair cut coincidently
Normally you would think, "what? all he did was get a haircut"
But its differant due to the fact that she was a girl into the scene thing so i suppose hair plays a major role in who they date.
So now I have short hair which is making me really sad due to the fact I no longer look like pete wentz (I was always complemented on my hair)
I have no girlfriend
I have no xbox
I have no skateboard
and I have no diablo
and I really like another girl in school but
1. I don't know whether she likes me back
2. I don't know how to get her number
3. The school year is almost over which provides me with limited time to get her attention.
Should I add her on myspace? How do I talk to her?
If she cared what your here was like, and dumped you because of your hair, then she's just a fucking bitch who doesn't even deserve your time. Be glad that it got broken off. Do you have any idea how stupid what you said came off as? Not to be an ass, but seriously..hair grows back, so I wouldn't kill myself over such a bullshit thing.
Neither do I. I don't even want one at the moment. They can be so fucking annoying.
I have an old X-Box..who still plays that shit anyway?
Skateboard? So you want to kill yourself..for having no skateboard. Wow, ok.
Nobody does.
Then ask her out
Ask her for it..be a man, and talk to her
Go up to her, start a conversation, and see how it goes.
Lighten up, and tone down the hormone talk, nothing is worth your life.
Honestly, as you get older, I think you'll come to the conclusion that it's actually better to NOT have a girlfriend. Too time constraining, and that other evil C word.
Imagine being in West Virginia, where once you get outside of urban cities you have a bunch of backwoods rednecks who have more ignorant beliefs then most peolpe did forty years ago.
Everyone's nice and cool in the cities, but once you get out of them ... it's like a different world. Nice people, most of the time, but damn ignorant.
And there's a lot of people I know that just jump to conclusions and go off what they hear, instead of thinking things out like a sensible human being. I mean, I know everyone jumps off to things sometimes, but you gotta admit when you're wrong and a lot of people don't lol.
You realize, I am one of those backwoods people in West Virginia that your talking about...right?...
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Did you quote someone else on that? Thats a pretty good quote
Not really... but if you're one of those people who happen to be better than other people at something then thats good. Channel your energy into that
And to add to that, even if your not the best, just throw yourself into something you like. You like video games? Lear how they work. You like movies, learn how they began. You like construction? Learn how they build buildings. Etc.
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Life isn't as easy as you thought it would be, don't worry, that happens to all of us. When the easy days of childhood are suddenly far behind us and we realise we can't keep living a dream and yes we'll probably have sucky jobs for a lot of the time, that's just a normal phase everyone goes through.
No, life sucks sometimes.
It really does.
But sometimes it's good, and that's what we gotta live for.
Honestly im really depressed right now and have no where to turn. Me and my girlfriend broke up after I got my hair cut coincidently
Normally you would think, "what? all he did was get a haircut"
But its differant due to the fact that she was a girl into the scene thing so i suppose hair plays a major role in who they date.
So now I have short hair which is making me really sad due to the fact I no longer look like pete wentz (I was always complemented on my hair)
I have no girlfriend
I have no xbox
I have no skateboard
and I have no diablo
and I really like another girl in school but
1. I don't know whether she likes me back
2. I don't know how to get her number
3. The school year is almost over which provides me with limited time to get her attention.
Should I add her on myspace? How do I talk to her?
Your not depressed but a good solution to your problem is to look beyond the surface, in even the most seemingly insignificant things. Your mind is your best friend.
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"Today a young man on acid realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. There is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here's Tom with the weather."
Think of the number of people (including small helpless children) that will die a painful and cold death, by themselves today.
Think of the family that watched it's father get slaughtered like a pig in the streets in a third world country, that will in turn die a slower more painful death in the coming months.
You are young. You probably have your health. You have a wealth of options avialable to you right now, that MANY other's would literally kill for.
You should blame society as a whole and your parents for the way you are feeling.
Certainly your life should be filled with excitment, wonder and magic.
Wonder why it's not? I'll give you a hint, even a locked door, is still just a door.
Or, you can always just let the things in your life happen to you inevidably.
If you are not happy, change until you are.
Most fear the change, which is why most are unhappy.
Live like a mindless drone, or be happy? Hmmm... Risk = reward, plus you'll have a hell of a story to tell!:)
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I have no girlfriend - so? lots of people dont
I have no xbox - i have it i never use it
I have no skateboard - go running or play some sport with ur mates
and I have no diablo - i got hacked and dont play it anymore cuz of that. just take a break and go back to it later
really m8 just take it easy go for a run think it through. there is nothing to be sad or depressed about. pull yourself together and get through this shit. I know it can feel like the walls of life are closing in from all sides but you just have to fight it, get through the wall and keep going forward. life is shitty sometimes u have to beat it back, if you get knocked down, you need to get back up and keep going.
goodluck to ya m8, i know you can get through this. just go for a really long run to clear your mind. hit the sack and wake up to a fresh day tomorrow with the strength and comfort of a clear mind.
peace be with you friend, goodluck.
*edit- to the folks saying that this is laughable... you cant ever truly understand what hes going through. words cant do justice to how people feel sometimes. just understand its a hard time for him and there are a lot of factors augmenting to make for a shitty feeling.
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Not really... but if you're one of those people who happen to be better than other people at something then thats good. Channel your energy into that
*cough*
Sounds like the only real problem you have is the girlfriend thing... Sometimes a person can get into that frame of mind where theres only really one problem, but they cloud themselves with every single problem there is around them... Some weird self destructive thing we have
Like getting sad and then listening to sad songs
If she cared what your here was like, and dumped you because of your hair, then she's just a fucking bitch who doesn't even deserve your time. Be glad that it got broken off. Do you have any idea how stupid what you said came off as? Not to be an ass, but seriously..hair grows back, so I wouldn't kill myself over such a bullshit thing.
Neither do I. I don't even want one at the moment. They can be so fucking annoying.
I have an old X-Box..who still plays that shit anyway?
Skateboard? So you want to kill yourself..for having no skateboard. Wow, ok.
Nobody does.
Then ask her out
Ask her for it..be a man, and talk to her
Go up to her, start a conversation, and see how it goes.
Lighten up, and tone down the hormone talk, nothing is worth your life.
Rise and rise again, until lambs become lions
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You realize, I am one of those backwoods people in West Virginia that your talking about...right?...
And to add to that, even if your not the best, just throw yourself into something you like. You like video games? Lear how they work. You like movies, learn how they began. You like construction? Learn how they build buildings. Etc.
No, life sucks sometimes.
It really does.
But sometimes it's good, and that's what we gotta live for.
Anyway, back to the topic at hand, DGK.
Lighten up.... lol
And if so, please realize I didn't call everyone that. Because if so, I'd be calling myself that as well.
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Quit acting like a b*itch.
Pain? Suffering? Depression?
Think of the number of people (including small helpless children) that will die a painful and cold death, by themselves today.
Think of the family that watched it's father get slaughtered like a pig in the streets in a third world country, that will in turn die a slower more painful death in the coming months.
You are young. You probably have your health. You have a wealth of options avialable to you right now, that MANY other's would literally kill for.
You should blame society as a whole and your parents for the way you are feeling.
Certainly your life should be filled with excitment, wonder and magic.
Wonder why it's not? I'll give you a hint, even a locked door, is still just a door.
Or, you can always just let the things in your life happen to you inevidably.
If you are not happy, change until you are.
Most fear the change, which is why most are unhappy.
Live like a mindless drone, or be happy? Hmmm... Risk = reward, plus you'll have a hell of a story to tell!:)
I went and partyed all weekend.
Your all absolutely right, why waste my time on a forum.
let me get someone contacts from my friends on the forums and I will request my account closed so if im tempted i can nolonger post here.
Thanks for the help guys
My plan is to make friends with the girl due not having the time to ask her out.
Glad to hear you straightened it out.
Well, I like doing what I want when I want with my free time. Maybe other people don't. :rolleyes:
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