I have many friends who are with women and men who really do not deserve them. But it is strange how we are attracted to that, like women who return to abusers and guys who return to control freaks and so on...
High school met a girl.......date girl for five months, fall head over, girl moves five hours away, girl breaks up, not a big deal and state this, girl drives and begs to be taken back, gal moves back.
Now things get interesting. I moved in with the gf and things were going well. Now of course she was always wanting me to convince her that she made the right choice by coming back. Obviously at first I did but as time went by and she wanted more and more I gave up. This drove her up the wall. So after awhile of this she leaves again, of course I get stuck with all the bills... She gets a new guy and calls me up blah blah. Yet again I try to convince her, yet I again i give up. She pretty much kept me at home all the time when we were together, because god forbid a guy go hang with buddies or even go to the store by himself lol. SO this guy gets himself a new gal. Ex finds out, and she never returned the apartment keys so you can guess what happens here. She walks in the house when she knows she is there and the have a huge battle...I just walked in the other room and played battlefront (hey I don't need that drama ). Get back with ex, move away for college Ex gets all sorts of new friends who love the party and the single life. Wants me to convince her I am like these people. GF breaks again, doesnt return phone calls or texts about bills - nothing. Gets a couple new boyfriends, makes sure I know about them and how I can't compare. I move to WA and she freaks out. Now she wants me to convince her that "I can change", it's been five months since the break up. Don't get me wrong, love her, but f*** that crap.
Now does this sound like something you want to get involved in?..........
As for your question, it is just about V-Day so swing that to your advantage
But if you think she would like your "sweet romantic side" then show it her yeah? I wouldn't just wait around for her to say "oh I would love to see what a romantic guy can do for me" because then you throw flowers and candies and kisses blah blah her way. It is basically just handing over all the power, letting go of all your self restraint. But I mean you are going to do it regardless probably because we seem to have this strange mentality toward attractive women built in
I am not sure if this is making any sense to you, to me it does but...
In my experience: you should not have to convince her of anything. Once you convince her to be with you youe spend the rest of the relationship trying to convince her to stick around. Granted no one should be taken at face value so maybe the key is to stop chasing and become the chased
I was alittle iffy when they said they were going to release ghost...but then that got shelved and sc2 was up and yeah, woohoo and all that. Gotta find a micronpen for this deal...
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dgk, your hubris is astounding
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High school met a girl.......date girl for five months, fall head over, girl moves five hours away, girl breaks up, not a big deal and state this, girl drives and begs to be taken back, gal moves back.
Now things get interesting. I moved in with the gf and things were going well. Now of course she was always wanting me to convince her that she made the right choice by coming back. Obviously at first I did but as time went by and she wanted more and more I gave up. This drove her up the wall. So after awhile of this she leaves again, of course I get stuck with all the bills... She gets a new guy and calls me up blah blah. Yet again I try to convince her, yet I again i give up. She pretty much kept me at home all the time when we were together, because god forbid a guy go hang with buddies or even go to the store by himself lol. SO this guy gets himself a new gal. Ex finds out, and she never returned the apartment keys so you can guess what happens here. She walks in the house when she knows she is there and the have a huge battle...I just walked in the other room and played battlefront (hey I don't need that drama
Now does this sound like something you want to get involved in?..........
As for your question, it is just about V-Day so swing that to your advantage
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But if you think she would like your "sweet romantic side" then show it her yeah? I wouldn't just wait around for her to say "oh I would love to see what a romantic guy can do for me" because then you throw flowers and candies and kisses blah blah her way. It is basically just handing over all the power, letting go of all your self restraint. But I mean you are going to do it regardless probably because we seem to have this strange mentality toward attractive women built in
I am not sure if this is making any sense to you, to me it does but...
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