ok here goes. there is this girl i liked from where i worked. shes 16 and im 16. school started so she quit work for volleyball, at school. i see her every day and want to ask her out. im summoning all the courage i have to do it. my concern is in the possible date. if she says yes what do i do?? i want to ask her out to the movies so there is an activity. what can i do to get her to like me and provide a possible second date??
damn this is embarrassing. especially because all my other freinds are being dicks and telling me to "geterdone". point is that i dont like the whole idea of casual sex. im conservative and believe in abstinence. she's mormon and has a conservative father. since i cant count on my freinds to give me heart to heart advice i guess i would try here since you guys are many and i can take or leave advice as i think is wise.
thank you for your time and please dont just leave stupid stuff on. most of you do have honest advice and are good people so i do trust you guys to be more mature about this.
yes... the movie is okay, eat in a nice place too, mmm... maybe you should buy her a little present or a rose, that should be cute i think so... if she says no well... be strong...
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nervous. i screw everything up. hopefully everything goes well. i have till wednesday to ask her and if she says yes i have till saturday evening to think up what ill tell her.
relationships leave you so vulnerable!!! it sucks to open up to someone not knowing whether they like you or not. love sucks.....
Okay well expressing your feelings to her before you ask her out, or at the begining of the date might make things a little awkward after that point. On Tuesday night try not to think of asking her out to much so that you can get a good nights sleep. When going to ask her, don't seem too giddy or desperate, just ask yourself (and not all "Dude I own I'm so arrogant" either). If she says no then keep your chin up, it happens. If she says yes, then take her out somewhere respective to eat, no fast food, a sit down place. Try not to get to fancy or anything, it'll be weird since she won't be expecting it and your going to a movie. Roses might be a little much for a first date. At dinner don't act like a slobe or just sit and eat and not say anything. Make small talk, get to know her, ask her about herself. Pay for her dinner and movie, that would be better than roses. Then you know nice movie not...(hmm what's out...) I don't remember...lol not Snakes on a Plane though. Geeshus this is a long post. I am pretty sure you can take it from there. Good luck!
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this is what i was talking about. i am truly thankful for the wealth of advice you guys have given me. i just woke up and feel i can conquer anything. obieperson thanks for the tips they make sense. lets just see how it goes wednesday. i kinda feel that she'll say yes, its just that i dont know how to handle awkward situations. thanks guys i appreciate the help an d i guess keep it coming since there are surely others in a similar situation.
yeah man just be casual but gentlemanly if thats a word well anway just treat her nice and all that and you'll probably go far (not in a sexual way though not til after marriage anyway^^)
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it depends most of the time i think people should just go for it and at other times i stay study the person to find out exactly what they like and then be that thing then ask them out or whatever
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yeah well that can happen sometimes but in those cases you should just grit your teeth and askthem out
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yeah i guess is true that always sucks when that happens at least for me cause im usually the guy who gave the advice to do it and then my friends all get mad at me
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plenty of times but my girlfriend died in a car accident a while back so im stayin out of the game for a while now
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yeah well if you dont move on you're gonna be lost forever that's what someone told me anyway i thought it was really wise so i decided to follow it and its really helped me a lot. by keeping busy and that kind of thing i can stop dwelling on the bad things and remember the good things
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I don't like taking girls to the movies unless I am dating them because you just kind sit there and really don't get to talk or joke around. If you really want to get to know her, go bowling if you like it, or just find a nice place to take a walk with her and do that. Dinner is always good, because you can talk face to face and get to know each other better. A samll gift like a teddy bear will be awesome. I gave my girl friend one on our first date(before we were together) and I sprayed it with my cologne. She told me she smelled it like every night while she was going to bed and she still has it to this day. Also writing a nice letter, not to cheesy, will always help if you can't explain how you feel face to face. And if she does say no, just accept it and still be her friend, because she could change her mind
It's kinda easy telling if a girl likes you..She will say more stuff to you then needs to be said. Example. If your going out to get ice cream and the girl/guy at the counter looks at you and is kinda stalling you from making your order :P... and if you "think" a girl likes you, just ask her to hang out. Like say, "Hey a couple of friends are going somewhere, and I was wondering if you want to come." If they say yes then most of the time, they have something for you.
well my strategy might change a bit. i was on my way from work and some dumbass went as i had right of way expecting that i would yeild. to my surprise my brakes were disabled (speculation after it i observed that fixing my tires i must have messed around with them) and ran into his small trailer. thankfully nothing broke but i did get very nasty scrapes on my ankle and its the size of a football after 12 hours. im not at school right now. i am at home because walking hurts enough without worrying about others stepping on me.
so what i might do is go to school tommorrow and tell her straight up that i would like her to go to the movies with me but if she cant or doesnt want to i would understand. i dont know. its a confident but yet not too confident approach to it.
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damn this is embarrassing. especially because all my other freinds are being dicks and telling me to "geterdone". point is that i dont like the whole idea of casual sex. im conservative and believe in abstinence. she's mormon and has a conservative father. since i cant count on my freinds to give me heart to heart advice i guess i would try here since you guys are many and i can take or leave advice as i think is wise.
thank you for your time and please dont just leave stupid stuff on. most of you do have honest advice and are good people so i do trust you guys to be more mature about this.
maybe i can express my feelings to her???
relationships leave you so vulnerable!!! it sucks to open up to someone not knowing whether they like you or not. love sucks.....
I have an evil plan to save the world for every man.
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
You can tell the same lie a thousand times but it never gets any more true so close your eyes once more and once more believe that they all still believe in you......
so what i might do is go to school tommorrow and tell her straight up that i would like her to go to the movies with me but if she cant or doesnt want to i would understand. i dont know. its a confident but yet not too confident approach to it.