When you do talk to her, ask to hang out sometime because she will know your interested, if she says yes then you know she is at least slightly interested in you. after that she may show it MORE, or less, then you make your decision whether or not to asker her to be your girlfriend.
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I am not a fan of Jazz music.
on a good day.... Optimistic and freedom-loving Jovial
and good-humored Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical
On a bad day.... Blindly optimistic and careless
Irresponsible and superficial Tactless and restless
How would threatening to kill her family put you in the friend zone? OOOh you ment option #2...
Not neccessarily, I think she will know you like her if you ask to hang out, if you don't want to go to deep in the friend zone, ask her to be your gf at the end your 'hang out' not during the middle of it though because if she happened o say no that would make everything awkward.
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I am not a fan of Jazz music.
on a good day.... Optimistic and freedom-loving Jovial
and good-humored Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical
On a bad day.... Blindly optimistic and careless
Irresponsible and superficial Tactless and restless
Or talk to her friends and ask them if she might like you lol, because if you get a definet yes she likes you, or thinks your cute or something it is a lot easier.
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I am not a fan of Jazz music.
on a good day.... Optimistic and freedom-loving Jovial
and good-humored Honest and straightforward
Intellectual and philosophical
On a bad day.... Blindly optimistic and careless
Irresponsible and superficial Tactless and restless
ROFL THATS BRILLIANT!!! I should do that... just walk up to the girl and say that omg
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If we could somehow make this
Christmas thing last
By helping a neighbor
Or even a stranger
And to know who needs help
You need only just ask
No! That won't put you in the friend zone unless you let it.
Getting put into the friend zone has nothing to do with if you ask her out immediately or not lol.
The way to stay out of the friend zone is to clearly tell her that you like her without saying anything. Using body language and flirting will keep you out.
Do something that a friend would not do. You simply have to approach it differently. You have to have the "fact" that you are pursuing her in your mind when you hang out with her.
Usually flirting is all it takes to stay out of the friend zone if you do it right. You can flirt right? And if you think you can..can you REALLY?
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"I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself I guess and leave this useless post behind to make you aware that there WAS something... "
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
I like that idea. :PAre you actually taking all that ladder theory crap seriously? Go read some real psychology, for God's sake...
No I'm not, but the friend zone DEFINITELY exists, and it's very dangerous.
That guide is better than psychology...I'm not into hearing about the science of human relationships. I want the philosophy on them.
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"I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself I guess and leave this useless post behind to make you aware that there WAS something... "
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
"Bitch..I love you will you go out with me?" I bet that would work
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If you want to arrange it
This world you can change it
If we could somehow make this
Christmas thing last
By helping a neighbor
Or even a stranger
And to know who needs help
You need only just ask
No I'm not, but the friend zone DEFINITELY exists, and it's very dangerous.
There are no zones. There is only the desire of humans to crook reality into something simple, aka zones. If anything seems simple, it's wrong. Human relationships are not simple. They're are so complex they'll drive you mad. I'm pretty sure any experienced adult can tear that theory apart simply from their, well, experience.
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That guide is better than psychology...
Where did you get that from? We are all biased, and just because something SEEMS to be true, doesn't mean it is. If a theory has no backup, that theory needs to be ignored, because there are hundreds of theories like that out there, and very few of them are worth anything.
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I'm not into hearing about the science of human relationships. I want the philosophy on them.
Then go read Plato and what not. There is plenty of classical, well-established philosophy out there on pretty much anything.
This ladder crap is not philosophy or science. It's speculation. And speculation is always dangerous. Even more dangerous is to accept another person's speculation rather than develop your own view. The most important thing is the establishment of a personal life philosophy. But even if you base your philosophy on another person's work, you need to understand why. You need to understand why something is true. And I don't think you do.
It's easy to just look at some nice little theory and be like, "oh, let's just believe that, it makes everything so simple!" It's like religion, the legal system, or parental views. That will work until you hit a dead end. And you don't want to hit it too late.
"The most persistent principles in the universe are accident and error." Liet-Kynes
I know this sounds somewhat stupid, but just do what your heart tells you to do. That is what I do, and 80 percent of the time it works. The other 20 percent is because she sends the wrong signals, and I just fuck it up, then I am embarassed and just walk away from it.
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Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
99% of attractive girls are shallow. If you're not attractive yourself then don't even try, lol.
its a 60% confidence, 10% looks, 20% what you say and the last 10% just make it up....if she is next to you start teasing her near her hand, then grab her hand and kinda squeeze then let go (this is just to see if she will let you grab her hand)...if ur sitting next to each other and she is facing you, put your hand on her thigh and ur 80% in...just remember treat her nice promise her the stars and after you hook up, treat her like shit if u want to keep her just dont go overboard, but dont treat her nicely again for a while
60% of the time it works all the time
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When you do talk to her, ask to hang out sometime because she will know your interested, if she says yes then you know she is at least slightly interested in you. after that she may show it MORE, or less, then you make your decision whether or not to asker her to be your girlfriend.
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Won't that push me into the friend zone, god damn it I need a straight forward response what do I do tommorow
Not neccessarily, I think she will know you like her if you ask to hang out, if you don't want to go to deep in the friend zone, ask her to be your gf at the end your 'hang out' not during the middle of it though because if she happened o say no that would make everything awkward.
or will that make the situation akward
If you want to arrange it
This world you can change it
If we could somehow make this
Christmas thing last
By helping a neighbor
Or even a stranger
And to know who needs help
You need only just ask
Getting put into the friend zone has nothing to do with if you ask her out immediately or not lol.
The way to stay out of the friend zone is to clearly tell her that you like her without saying anything. Using body language and flirting will keep you out.
Do something that a friend would not do. You simply have to approach it differently. You have to have the "fact" that you are pursuing her in your mind when you hang out with her.
Usually flirting is all it takes to stay out of the friend zone if you do it right. You can flirt right? And if you think you can..can you REALLY?
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
No I'm not, but the friend zone DEFINITELY exists, and it's very dangerous.
That guide is better than psychology...I'm not into hearing about the science of human relationships. I want the philosophy on them.
-Equinox
"We're like the downtown of the Diablo related internet lol"
-Winged
If you want to arrange it
This world you can change it
If we could somehow make this
Christmas thing last
By helping a neighbor
Or even a stranger
And to know who needs help
You need only just ask
i said that to a girl once
it was pretty damn funny
but thats what you get when you lose a bet
Where did you get that from? We are all biased, and just because something SEEMS to be true, doesn't mean it is. If a theory has no backup, that theory needs to be ignored, because there are hundreds of theories like that out there, and very few of them are worth anything.
Then go read Plato and what not. There is plenty of classical, well-established philosophy out there on pretty much anything.
This ladder crap is not philosophy or science. It's speculation. And speculation is always dangerous. Even more dangerous is to accept another person's speculation rather than develop your own view. The most important thing is the establishment of a personal life philosophy. But even if you base your philosophy on another person's work, you need to understand why. You need to understand why something is true. And I don't think you do.
It's easy to just look at some nice little theory and be like, "oh, let's just believe that, it makes everything so simple!" It's like religion, the legal system, or parental views. That will work until you hit a dead end. And you don't want to hit it too late.
"The most persistent principles in the universe are accident and error." Liet-Kynes
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.
99% of attractive girls are shallow. If you're not attractive yourself then don't even try, lol.
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its a 60% confidence, 10% looks, 20% what you say and the last 10% just make it up....if she is next to you start teasing her near her hand, then grab her hand and kinda squeeze then let go (this is just to see if she will let you grab her hand)...if ur sitting next to each other and she is facing you, put your hand on her thigh and ur 80% in...just remember treat her nice promise her the stars and after you hook up, treat her like shit if u want to keep her just dont go overboard, but dont treat her nicely again for a while
60% of the time it works all the time